It is not about being petulant or rude, it’s about being confident (comfortable in your own skin.) I meet women in Medellin by just living my life.
Every day I see gorgeous women walking up and down the street.
Imagine, our hands are on each other’s bodies before even knowing each other’s names.
More often than not I’m not even interested in talking to the girl; I just want to dance and have fun. Amazingly, when I do that women are more attracted than when I start talking to them while dancing.
This has proven to be essential for me when picking up women in Medellin. Socially, women are a little different than the southern California women I was used to picking up.
A certain amount of negligence after making an impression piques a woman’s interest, it is the whole psychological framework of the type of women who wants a strong man (check out this great article on Psychology Today by Gina Barreca, Ph.
D.) I started to read about this subject back in high school.
NOTE: I wrote this post about my experience dating women in Medellin back in April of 2013.
Over the past 5 years I’ve dated many Colombian women and I frequently update this post.