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Did you know It takes less than 30 seconds to join and start meeting singles in your area? More Online Dating and Chat Services: Totally free personal ads for Christian men and women plus singles who are looking for fun or a relationship.Internet dating services and chatrooms for spiritual singles plus dating tips, advice and photo personals.I once had a close friend confide in me that a boy I liked told her he could never date me, despite being “attracted to my personality,” because of my weight, because he was embarrassed by me.It was my worst nightmare come true — that my personality does not offer enough redemption for my looks. Dating as an overweight woman can be more difficult.

I’ve had Christians justify this pressure by dismissing unrealistic beauty standards with a simple, “Well, men are visual creatures after all.” While I cannot speak for all women, I can say that being overweight has diminished (and most often completely erased) any interest from men.It feels like things should be different in the church.Markers of spiritual maturity, like depth of character or willingness to serve, should trump my above-average BMI, but rarely is that the case.The natural assumption is that I want to be married, so to still be single at 27 makes me the object of pity, scrutiny, or, at worse, apathy.While I do dream of marriage, I feel helpless in pursuing it when I’ve only experienced rejection from men in the church.Where you can meet Christian singles for pen pals or romantic dating.

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