) I think that while guys don't like to admit when they have non-mainstream tastes, there are a significant number out there who find a broad spectrum of women attractive or who have fetishes for particular things that others might find unattractive.Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I know men who are attracted to heavier women who hide the fact because they get ribbed by their buddies.Of course there are exceptions to this - there are men out there that are totally not ashamed to be attracted to and love a heavier woman.But socially, it is not really accepted among men so they hide it.Having said that, don't take that to mean that men are shallow pigs.I am naturally more attracted to men of average weight than overweight men. Yes, it might make our breasts and butts bigger, but I would rather let my body exist in the healthy form it is supposed to be in.He says that if i were to gain the 50llbs again, and be as confident as i am now, he would still be attracted to me. If you are confident and are comfortble with your body, others notice this and flock to you.Thursday, December 27, 2007, AM 6"20 SOme meat on their bones doesn't have to mean fat in general.
When a women feels good about herself and is happy and confident, basically when she feels sexy, men can't help but notice, its like she puts out a scent of some kind.It is supposed to be embarrassing to get with a heavier woman because men are so focused on bodies, or at least they are supposed to be.But its somewhat more acceptable to hook up with heavy woman while drunk, which is why sadly a lot of overweight girls (including myself) have random hook ups that never call, and don't get asked out often.At first i questioned his intentions because i recently lost 50 lbs.He never said anything to me before, only now did he finally decide to take a step forward. I think most men will be attracted to an outgoing larger sixed woman and a thinner girl who is a walflower ;) ~workout25 Tuesday, August 29, 2006, AM I dunno about the buff, health-conscious guys on PT, but I (female) go around town with a (female) friend who is 150# overweight, and guys just DROOL after her when they think no one sees them. I also went out for a while with a guy who was interested in much older women.