Whatever your answer is, that’s the main cause of your behaviour.
If your answer is something like “to find the one”, you’re gonna come across as needy.
Why bend over backwards to make someone you barely know happy? A prime example of this is a guy who brings a girl flowers on the first date.
A nice gesture, but how do you know she deserves them? Some women might be wondering if having sex too soon is scaring guys away.
Any guy who loses interest in you for having casual sex “too soon” is not worth having around.
Likewise, if she’s got some clothes or 8,412 bottles of hair product in your shower, you’re in.
The Big One: Your First Fight If you have a fight and you don’t break up, you’re basically saying this is something worth working on.
The final milestone is when you know it’s official – whether you say it’s a serious relationship or not.
Unscheduled Time Together When you start hanging out together without making plans in advance, you know things are getting serious.