She says, “because it was constant and didn’t stop. It was the same thing.” Luann finally couldn’t do it anymore. “My heart just kept telling me it was okay and I had my blinders on.
She didn’t think he could give up his bachelor life to live a married life in the way she wanted. And then all of the sudden, my blinders were off and it was like ‘Oh my God, this is not right.'”She says when Tom was talking to Missy (forgetting he was mic’ed) that he was just trying to be charming and that’s his past life.
Tom may have been flirtatious and all of that, but I know that he did not cheat on me. Andy tries to ask what they were fighting about, but Luann “doesn’t want to get into that.” She then just says that he said some things that were hurtful. Luann says she did not slap him, she just grabbed his face in the heat of the moment. At this age it’s very hard to change people.” She admits she tried to get him to stop going to the Regency but he wouldn’t change his lifestyle. I expected change.”Andy asks again if she believes Tom was faithful and she says she totally believes that.
I know that for a fact.”So why did they file for divorce, then? She says that the weekend before the reunion Tom called up an old girlfriend and they met up with a group of people and she didn’t find out about it until the next day in the press. Andy asks what changed to make Luann stop being so confident in Tom‘s love for her and who he was. “He’s a flirty guy, he’s a social guy and I think people take that the wrong way sometimes.”Luann says that what Bethenny said at the reunion about how she’d be crying in the bathroom if she was in Luann’s shoes, made Luann really think about how horrible the situation was.
On Bethenny showing her the proof of Tom kissing another woman, Luann finally admits, “I should’ve saw the big red flag right there, but I loved him and I chose to forgive him.She admits, “it’s been tough, it’s been really, really tough.”Andy mentions that the last he saw Lu was at the reunion, where she wore her rehearsal dinner dress and was gushing about her happiness.She replies, “I think you already saw that I was having some problems.” Andy says, “well it was, for me, the first time there were cracks.”Luann says she is happy about the fact that her co-stars (at the reunion) were finally being respectful about her marriage, even if they didn’t agree with it.I think Frenchie is a wonderful man, but I don’t know if it’s truly a rock solid relationship. I heard some things on the streets, the hard streets of New York.” When asked to elaborate she just teased, “That’s Season 10,” which will hopefully be a lot better than Season 9.RELATED: Dorinda Medley Calls Ramona Singer And Sonja Morgan’s Room-Grabbing “The Worst Behavior”In other Sonja Morgan news, Rocco Ancorola shared with Page Six (of course!I thought if you can’t forgive the people you love, who can you forgive?