Where are the guys who really step out and are so different and think globally and want to subvert gender roles and white supremacy and the status quo?I’m over the pastel shorts, the men who think that having a hot “girl” on their arms somehow makes him more of a man, and the hipsters who think that if they listen to Father John Misty maybe people won’t notice that they only date a woman if she fits into a certain dress size and ups his social capital.” “I’m married.Do people date anymore or just Snap their genitals to interested parties?” “Dating for 40 is extremely difficult” “Wasteland if you’re over 45” “It’s great for my 27-year-old daughter, but awful for me, her 54-year-old mom.” “Men in Charlotte are too buttoned up, too shy, etc.I am just as guilty in this, but it is a product of the environment we are in.” “If I meet one more guy who works in finance and whose primary hobby is drinking I will lose my mind.” “I dated most everyone who had both a face and a job on Tinder. “I’m really not into the bro’d out, preppy, Vineyard Vines type. Give me diversity and some hunka hunka outdoorsy guys.” “For an ex Special Forces guy it’s pretty easy pickins in this city of metrosexual girly men…especially since most of them are candy asses from up north…” “CLT is full of people who are committed to their career first and relationship second.
Recently, we reached out to our 19,000 Agenda newsletter subscribers and asked them: How would you grade the dating scene in Charlotte? The hook-up scene on the other hand is an A .” “Charlotte is weird for dating.
And what are your thoughts on the Charlotte dating scene? It’s like there are too many women so it’s ultra competitive or maybe guys just don’t want to settle down.” “If you’re in the scene for fun then you’re in the right place but if you’re looking for a meaningful relationship you’ve got your work cut out for you.
Charlotte has become very superficial and everybody is waiting for something better to come along than focusing on what they have in front of them. I think the dating scene is exceptional despite what all my friends would tell you. Bonus: Men are typically not photogenic so you’re usually in for a pleasant surprise when you meet them.
It's not all long legs, shiny hair, hourglass curves—according to a study out of Monmouth University, personality can make a big difference in whether someone finds you aesthetically pleasing.
Groups of men and women who were asked to judge strangers' yearbook photos were more likely to rate subjects as physically attractive, a potential friend, and a potential date when the images were paired with positive personality traits.