So it is acceptable for you to initiate with a shy guy. The problem with male shyness is that it wears off in specific situations.A shy man may never become courageous enough to approach women in general, but he can eventually grow comfortable with a girlfriend or wife.I’m not raising my little girls to be the kind of women who need their daddy to act like a creepy, possessive badass in order for them to be treated with respect.
Of course, he will question this over and over in his mind, wondering whether you were asking him to hang out just to be friends, or if you wanted something more.
The second caveat is that even a shy man has pride.
Though he knows his own limitations (as prescribed by his shyness), he also knows what a typical man is "supposed to do." So he recognizes, too, when you are doing it for him.
If nothing else, this blog is an outlet for voicing my astonishment at the typical female's ignorance of the male mindset.
At most, it is a reliable source of advice for women who want to improve their chances with the opposite sex.